For My Mom

For My Mom

I was not able to prepare a speech for my mom’s surprise birthday party. It was enough work to pack for a flight and plan the party itself along with cleaning the house for Jeff’s uncle to stay here with our dogs. In restless moments, I composed broad tributes to the woman who brought me into this world. However, through the normal chaos of my day, I didn’t take the time to write these mental speeches down. Now I will.

Lessons my mother taught me:

Always follow your gut instinct. If something doesn’t seem right, it’s probably not. Find out what is wrong.

You can do anything you set your mind to.

Children cannot be spoiled by too many hugs or kisses.

Honey attracts more flies than vinegar.

Don’t be afraid to ask for something. The worst thing people can say is ‘no’.

Rock your children until they’re too big to sit in the chair with you. Read poetry and stories to your children as often as possible. Teach them to appreciate touch and language – our humanity that we pass along from one generation to the next.

The journey of a thousand miles starts with a single step.

Be able to look yourself in the mirror every morning with contentment over the decisions you've made.

Mind your manners. Say ‘yes, ma’am/sir’, ‘no ma’am/sir’, ‘please’ and ‘thank you’ to everyone. (…and mom enforces this rule!)

Write thank you notes for gifts received. Gratitude starts as a child and should continue throughout your lifetime.

Go out there with a big smile on your face.

Other people are more concerned with themselves than with you.

Learn the art of listening.

Savor every moment. We can’t change the past; we can only affect the future.

You can always go back home – and your momma will always love you, no matter what you’ve done.